Tuesday, May 4, 2010

Unit 6

Hi class, after practicing the loving-kindness exercise, I am again reminded how important it is to take time in life to slow down our bodies and our mind in order to feel such positive feelings. This type of meditation that focuses on a specific feelings of kindness and the act of selflessness is a healthy reminder of humanity. When you stop and think, there is really nothing positive out of anger. It really is a wonderful reminder. After completing the integral assessment exercise, sitting and reflecting on an area or areas that need to be developed and focused on came very easily to me. I feel that I need improvement on psycho spiritual and biological health. Because I struggle with Lupus, I am always very fatigued, this is why I feel that I need to improve on my biological health. I sometimes feel very scattered through out the day, my mind is racing and I am trying to accomplish many things at one time. I know that developing a subtle mind would help me immensely. I also know that taking time our to train my mind through meditation would also benefit me. My biggest obstacle would be time. Upon awakening every day, I think of the things that need to be done, what everyone needs that day, what time everyone needs to be picked up, what laundry needs to be done, and what am I going to put in lunch boxes and what I will make for dinner, fitting time in to quiet my mind, always barely gets squeezed in at night. But I tell myself 10 minutes is better than nothing. I also sit and think how healthy I will be when I'm retired!!!

2 comments:

  1. Hi Jenny,
    When I did the Loving-kindness exercise, I didn't think about how we need to slow down in life so we could enjoy others and ourselves. I just went through the exercise because I had to and because I had this attitude about it, I wasn't able to fully induldge in art of meditation. Us mother's have so much on our plates that we don't realize how important it is for us to have 'me' time. We need to incorporate 'me' time into our lives so we can stay sane. What would our families do if we went nuts one day and couldn't function (lol...let's hope not)? My husband would be able to care for the kids for a day or two, but he would go crazy soon after that. We are the glue and sticks that hold our homes together. We need to take the time from our busy schedules to take a breather and remind ourselves of who we are and why we do things. This will help make us happier and healthier women, wives, and mommas. Hang in there ( I know I am).

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  2. Hi Michelle, thanks for the post. You are so right, a mom has so much on her shoulders. I have to admit the loving-kindness exercises have really helped me to remember that, not only do we have a lot on our plates but we are first and foremost caregivers and that our children will benefit the most from a loving, kind mommy and not just a "going crazy mommy"! Thanks for the inspirational words, Jenny

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